Advice & Guidance
Advice for Children & Young People
If you are being bullied it’s important that you tell someone you trust.
This is what the Anti-Bullying Alliance say about bullying:-
- It doesn’t matter what colour hair you have; what trainers you are wearing; how you speak; how you walk; how you talk – it is not your fault if you get bullied. We are all different in some way and that’s what makes us amazing.
- Whether you are a boy or a girl, old or young, big or small – bullying makes you feel rubbish and it’s okay to be upset about it. The important thing is that you tell someone about it.
- If you feel you can, talk to a teacher you trust or a family member. If you don’t want to do that you can always call Childline 0800 11 11 or visit www.childline.org.uk.
- Write down what happened, when it happened, and who was involved. If the bullying is online, keep the evidence – save or copy any photos, videos, texts, e-mails or posts.
- It can be tempting if you are being bullied to take revenge – for example to send a horrible message back to someone; to try and embarrass and hurt the other person, or to fight back. This is not a good idea – you might end up getting in trouble or get yourself even more hurt.
- Think about other ways you can respond to bullying. For example, practice saying ‘I don’t like it when you say that/do that – Stop.’ Think about other people who can help you if you are being bullied – this could be other classmates, or a teacher.
- Only spend time with people who make you feel good about yourself. If someone constantly puts you down they are not a real friend/ boyfriend/ girlfriend and not worth your time.
- Be kind to yourself, and do things that make you feel good, relax and make new friends. You might make music; write lyrics; draw cartoons; dance; act or join a sports club. This is your life so make sure it’s the best life possible – don’t let anyone bring you down.
- Remember to respect other people! Just because someone is different to you and your friends – that doesn’t mean you are better than them or have a right to make them feel bad. If you mess up, say sorry. You don’t have to be friends with everyone – but you should always make it clear that you don’t like it when people bully others, and stick up for people who are having a hard time.
www.childline.org.uk Loads of information about relationships, bullying, you and your body and much more
Bounce Back from Bullying A Self-Help Tool from Childline
www.kidscape.org.uk Advice about bullying, cyberbullying and friendships
www.forwardthinkingbirmingham.org.uk Mental Health support for 0-25s
www.anti-bullyingalliance.org.uk Advice & resources about all types of bullying
Support for anyone with questions about sexuality:-
What: Are you trans, gender variant or questioning your gender identity and aged 13-19? Then why not come along to Emerge?
When: Emerge meets two saturdays in a month, from 12.30pm to 3.30pm, in a central Birmingham location.
Phone: 0121 643 0821